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Sunday started at the breakfast table with Alex & Linda, along with a double espresso & a croissant with plum jam. It was an especially nice way to segue into the next part of my trip – & was a great end to my time on the Laurenziberg.


On 2 November, TPLF, our sister church, & the FEGW (Foursquare Germany) appointed a new pastor – Eddy Dueck. I’ve known him for the last 3 years, having met him through the FEGW conference that I attend each November. This morning, Eddy drove about 40 miles out of his way to pick me up & take me to church this morning. We had a great talk on the way into town, esp. nice over a groß cup of McDonald’s coffee.

Got to church about 9, & got to spend the a.m. talking with old friends & renewing acquaintances – sat with Sam & Mirjam Clayton, & held my god-daughter (their daughter Rebekah) until she realized that the kids crawling around on the floor were having more fun than she was. There was no translation – so after worship, I got to practice my German comprehension – the cool part was that I actually got a couple of the jokes, & probably understood about 50% of what was said. Yay me.


My friends Sandra & Martin (who Joni & I traveled to Strassburg with this time, last year,) invited me over for lunch & to spend the afternoon with them – turns out they have a new member of the family that they wanted to introduce me to… a brand new Swiss coffee machine. Got to have a cup or 5, & then we ate, talked, laughed, & caught up on what’s been happening in the last year. Had a few things to talk about…☺


My ride to the FEGW conference was Wilfried, the assistant to the pastor at TPLF – & we drove the 1 hour trip to Oberwesel. Had a little bit of trouble finding the youth hostel – in our quest, Wilfried joked that it probably was the castle on the hill. Turns out it wasn’t, but it WAS right next to it.


The FEGW conference has two speakers – one from Holland, the national leader, Piet Brinksma. He’s teaching some practical sessions on Holy Spirit-led evaluation – both personal & church. The other guy is German, Michael Winkler, & he’s talking about developing a healthy church. I’m interested & intrigued.

There’s about 100 people at the conference, many that I know from previous years – got to see Roland Lorenz, the pastor of the church where our houseguest, Julia goes in Ottesweier – then after worship & the meeting, I got to hang out with Aris, Alex, Johannes & Anja Livelli in the bistro over the best Hefeweizen in Germany. Lots of laughs & a late night which wrapped up with a good phone call to theBean.

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Today, we had a leisurely day – ate pancakes (blueberry & quark) & sat around the house in the sun; Nowhere to go, nothing to do, except enjoy the sun – & Alex & Linda. We sat at the table & talked; Later I wrote (I’m working on “Revolution of the Soul”.) & got my stuff ready for the next phase of the trip – the Pastors Conference in Oberwesel, about 30km from Mainz.Then, this afternoon, we decided to go to Ingelheim & Bad Kreuzberg, where my hosts took me up to an old tower – we climbed up inside it & I took pictures of the surrounding landscape… but didn’t go too near the edge. There’s also a picture of Alex & Linda & Alex & me, with my HUUUGE melon blocking Alex, leaving him in the shadows behind the VIRTUAL planetoid, like sputnik, quite pointy in parts…

Later, in Bad Kreuzberg, we walking through the hillside vineyards. There is something very soothing to me, standing amid the symmetrical rows of vines, knowing that no matter where I look, the vines are laid out in straight lines in every direction. Absolutely awesome, (& a little OCD…)



We found a mexican restaurant – something new for me (& them) in Germany, so we went in – had nachos, chicken fajitas, & tamales. Very authentic – & cheesy, like the best really dicey American take on mexican restaurants are, down to the ‘mix-tape’ of spanish versions of the moody blues, simon & garfunkel, & george michael. Very nice – & the food was not bad. Ate til full.

We made our way home & watched a movie with Liam Neeson – brand new, called, Taken a “spy’s daughter got kidnapped & sold into white slavery so he’s going to get her back, no matter what” movie. Better than Bond, I’ll tell you that – quite the action flick, just the kind that theBean would not only absolutely refuse to watch if she knew the premise, but further, she would never sit down throughout the whole thing if she actually watched it. I liked it.

Now its late, & I’m headed for bed. Big day tomorrow – to TPLF (yay) & then to Oberwesel. Thanks for praying for me.

drei


Linda’s long day is Thursday, so while she was at school, Alex & I decided to take a field trip to a town nearby, called Bingen, which sits right on the Rhein River. I’m including some pictures taken from a park/’look-out point’ that Alex & Linda discovered. Those of you who have been to Erden, Traben-Trabach, & the Moesel region will recognize the very family look that a wine-growing area in Germany has.

We walked along the river just as the sun had set & what there were of city lights reflected off of the water in a manner that makes theBean feel all mushy inside. Missed you.

Then, we headed towards the downtown, which was a lot like the other small village/towns we’ve been too – with the very misplaced, high-end retail shop thrown in to remind me that some people like their fashion, & that being a snappy dresser knows no geographical boundaries.



I’m also including a picture of Alex & Linda’s front door, & by popular demand, am showing a picture of one of the massive roosters that enjoys serenading me at 4 a.m.

One of these times, I might even get a picture of me with the people I’m hanging out with too.



Zwei…


I ended up sleeping almost 11 hours… & was woken up by a combination of Alex’s knock on the door & the 47 pound rooster across the street declaring his existence. Everything in me wanted to drag out my sleep longer; it would have been 10x worse if I’d used the Euro-‘blackout’ blinds. I’ve learned my lesson on those – if I use them, my sleep/wake schedule will never get adjusted. This is a picture of my room & comfy bed.


Gau Algesheim is a lot like Golden Valley, in that the occasional horse & poultry are ok to have, but its still not the full-fledged goat/dairy farm one might find in say… the country. (Like Smith Valley? Do they have dairy farms in Smith Valley?)


Linda has to travel to Frankfurt every day for school & practicums, leaving the house shortly after 5 a.m., often returning about 7 – the commute (by train) is 2 hours, every day, & is a part of the price of Alex & Linda following their calling in continuing their pastoral internship, which most likely will continue for another 3-4 years.



So today, Alex, Jonathan (the puppy,) & I hung out around the table over tea, great German bread, & plum preserves, talking about life. Conversation with Alex is always very enjoyable, & over an incredible range of topics. Today we talked the current state of American politics, what’s happening in the church in Germany, the news w/in the Church at large, discipleship, grieving loss & change, moves of the Holy Spirit & the migration of people to those moves (ala Lakeland & to an extent Redding,) & the desperate need for each Christ-follower to be developing a systematic theology & understanding of God that is not theoretical but is practical, livable, & flexible. And rather than simply accepting an ill-fitting Christian label, (evangelical, charismatic, pentecostal, fundamentalist, reformed, etc.) a label that often divides & brings misunderstanding, even before a working definition is offered up, its paramount that we lead with love, acceptance, & forgiveness. I can see while the Apostle Paul led off & closed his letters with “Grace & Peace” to his readers… because he knew, by the Holy Spirit, that those two elements are vital for the long-term life & health of relationships.


Don’t have many plans today – Alex is working from home while I blog, then we make take a voyage to the village of Bingen, which is only about 5K away… see what there is to see.


Found out last night that Johannes & Anja will be attending & participating in the Pastors’ conference next Sunday-Wednesday. I’m greatly looking forward to spending time with them there.


Last night, we got to walk the streets of Gau Algesheim, putting flyers for the church that Alex & Linda attend in mailboxes of people – at 9 p.m. I tried to be as quiet as possible, yet found several reasons why I could never go ‘stealth’ if I wanted to:

  • The dark makes it hard to see, leading to stumbling & big noise. Case in point: the garbage cans I knocked over in the dark. 2nd prize: falling off the 2nd step, thinking it was the last step.
  • Motion lights: nearly every house had them, except for the two I mentioned above.
  • My skills: subpar – long gone are the nerves of steel that allowed me to sneak up to a house & TP the trees… now, all I can think of is, “I wonder what the penalty is in Gau Algesheim for trespassing?” And, “now, where did I leave my passport again?” Good times. Made me wish for hot soup.
  • Day 1 continues….

    Left Chicago on time, 6:48 CST. Turns out I was in a totally & out flight, & the lady with the turban & the baby wanted to know if I could change seats with her – my aisle seat, more space & leg room, no built in TV, left side of the plane, for her aisle seat, built in TV, right side of the plane. I was the 5th person asked – and I switched, for purely practical reasons. TV in my seat. Not much difference in leg room. Comped goodies from the flight attendant for making their life (& the mom/baby’s) easier. And I didn’t even know about the comped snacks when I agreed to move.


    Slept for about 4 hours – & woke up an hour out of Frankfurt. Just in time to beat the rush to the john. Good times.


    All my bags showed up (yay!) & I cleared customs in record time. Went to Segafreddo for a doppio & waited for the 12:38 train where I would meet my host & travel to Gau Algesheim. Time passes slowly when one is trying not to go to sleep, when every ounce of ones body, soul, mind, & strength wants nothing more than to sleep. Anywhere. But I made it.


    Linda G. met me on the train & we traveled for about 50 minutes to the G.A. stop – where Alex & the big puppy Jonathan picked us up in the car & drove to their house. And it is awesome!


    Went for a short walk (1 hour) while Linda cooked a phenomenal chicken curry that had enough spice to clear my sinuses & then some. Very nice. Laid down for 30 minutes, talked to theBean on the phone, & now am trying to orient myself to my surroundings & to buttress my resolve to stay awake until at least 9 tonight. Only 3 1/2 more hours.


    Firmed up my Frankfurt plans – I’ll be with Levent & Ines. Another yay, another unknown falls by the wayside.

    Until later.

    Day 1 – a travel saga…

    Up at 4:40 for some coffee & to look at the sleeping family. Hmm. Peaceful. They look so cute when they’re asleep, too. Being away from family is the hardest part of this trip, & its never more difficult than the last night before leaving. The morning departure looms, the unknowns of the 13 day voyage & separation lurk. All we want to do is & be with each other & hang out in our cubby sitting on the couch with a glass of red at the end of the day… it is one of the sweetest things in life. Actually reminds me of when theBean & I were dating. Minus the red, of course, as theBean was only 17 at the time. And I said, “Whoooaaahhh!”


    The ticket I’m flying on is a ‘free’ ticket, in that I used my airmiles to get the ticket – which means 3 legs to the trip – Reno to Denver to Chicago to Frankfurt. But with the price of airtravel (& considering how long it takes to walk to Germany,) I’ll take the inconvenience as a challenge, & enjoy free wifi in 2 airports, snarf a couple of Mickey D’s double-cheeseburgers (the breakfast of champions. And lunch. And dinner today,) & then sleep fitfully for 5 or more hours on the last flight – pray for scoey to sleep well, & to dream of what is right now unknown…


    When I get home, Thanksgiving will be right around the corner. That means ribs are coming! Woohoo.


    I spent the last 90 minutes walking – throughout the B concourse in the Denver airport, stopping only for nature’s call & a cup of Verona. Nice. I’m going to go walk some more, as sitting for 12 hours on planes is a great way to get your body cramped up.

    I’ll post when I can – thanks for your prayers.

    packing

    This afternoon offers the opportunity of doing laundry in preparation for “the packing” in preparation for my upcoming trip to Deutschland on Tuesday.

    As usual, I’m conflicted – don’t want to take the big suitcase, & also don’t want to end up wishing that I’d brought more stuff with me. But, I usually end up taking about 2-3x as many shirts, pants, & warm stuff than I need. And every time I get back, I promise myself that I won’t make the same mistake again. Which, of course, I inevitably do.

    But this time will be different. Really. It could happen.


    The 1st 4 days of my trip I will be in a place called “Gau Algesheim” – about a 2 hour train trip from Frankfurt. I’m headed there right after my arrival (early Wednesday a.m.) to spend some time with my friends Alex & Linda – something that I’m greatly looking forward to, as they are always ‘highlights’ for me to spend time with – for their wonderful personalities, great senses of humor, & determination to follow Christ, all of which are an inspiration to me.

    After that, I’m off to Oberwesel – don’t know anything about that, other than its by the Rhein River, which makes theBean more than a little jealous, as seeing lights on water, at night, is her favorite thing. I’ll be there through the following Wednesday, 12 November, at which time its back to Frankfurt for meetings with friends at TPLF. Our sister church has a new pastor, Eddy Dueck, & I’ll hopefully be able to spend some time with him during the last days.


    I don’t QUITE have my accommodations when I’m back in Frankfurt arranged. Which means that after 12 November, I don’t know where I’ll be staying, or with whom. And its not that I’m worried about not knowing, but I think I’d probably sleep better tonight, where I’ll be sleeping then.

    Ok. Time to load the washer.

    It’s a girl…!


    Before you start offering congratulations on a little 9-month surprise, (no, we’re not having a baby,) I need to ‘splain. Or if there is no time, at least to sum up. Our family is growing.

    Coming up on 8 September, Julia Kern, a 19-year old from a town in the SW of Germany, near “Ottesweier”, is coming to live with us for between 6-9 months… depending on her VISA (not the credit card, the application to stay in the US.)

    The picture above was taken in May of this year – Julia is wearing the black shirt, & is standing in the front (middle), right next to her big little sister Linda, & her parents (on the left). On the right are two of my favorite people – Johannes & Anja Livelli – & we had just spent the evening eating pizza & drinking the local red .

    When we’ve talked to people about Julia’s impending arrival, they inevitably ask:

  • How did you find her?
    TheBean & I know her pastor, Roland Lorenz. We’ve been getting together each November at the Foursquare Germany Pastors Conference. Julia has wanted to visit (& live) in the States, & Roland helped us to connect with Julia & her family in August 2007… & we’ve been in touch for the last year planning this… (Roland is in the picture below…)
  • Where is she going to stay?
    In our house. In one of the rooms. Not with Pasty or Joey…
  • Why would you have someone stay with you for so long?
    We like having people live with us – there are qualifiers for that… :) Part of it is that we love Germany, college students, & relationship-based Christ-following. This is the perfect situation where they all come together.
  • What if it doesn’t work out?
    Then I will have a series of cool blogs to write. :) I think we’ll grow through this, & we’ll make it. She’s low-maintenance, great with kids, & it’s not something we’re freaking out about.
  • What do your kids think?
    Depends on when you ask them… We talked about this A LOT & made the decision about it as a family.

    Just about every time. Just about every question.


    So, it’s on – insta-family addition, w/o the pain of diapers. We’ll never be the same. Can’t wait.

    No, yes I can. But we are looking forward to it.

  • heading out

    Woke up this morning to smell of breakfast – Johannes prepared some eggs all the accoutrements of a German breakfast for us today… very nice. We hung out, drank coffee, & enjoyed catching up on the last 6 months. We went for a drive to the Black Forest using the High Road – a special windy road that made me get all nauseous & long for fresh air :).


    We arrived at the Aldes Gott Vineyard (Old God) & browsed the gift shop to pick up a memento for The Bean & Alex & Linda too – & made it back to J & A’s by the time Anja had to go to work. Johannes took me back to Frankfurt, a 2 hour drive. I have really missed my friend…


    Alex, Linda, & I took Johnathan for a walk in the park (as fun as it sounds,) & then hung out at home to watch “The Counterfeiters”.

    One of the highlights, if not THE highlight for me, has been the opportunity to share life with the Grieguszies family. To be involved, included, & accepted by such wonderful people goes beyond the words necessary to describe it. It’s been truly amazing.


    I’ve got about 4 1/2 hours of potential sleep available, as I’m coming home tomorrow – taking the 8:25 flight to Washington – to Denver – to Reno… I’m planning on processing the week & trying to wrap my brain around what I’ve seen & heard.

    Thanks for your prayers – its greatly appreciated. I can’t wait to get home.

    Late nights

    It’s 2:33 a.m. for me, & I’m posting on a ‘borrowed’ wifi… gracias to whoever is lending it.

    Drove 2 hours to Steinbach to spend time with Johannes & Anja – we first went to visit a friend, Roland Lorenz, at the church in Ottesweier – I met Roland about 2 years ago & have corresponded with him since – we prayed through his church & he asked us to bless him & his church. I truly felt honored to be with him in the place where he’s given the last 5 years of his life…


    There’s a girl in Roland’s church, Julia (think: J=Y, so its Yulia) who is finishing her last exams of ‘high school’ in July – she’s 19 & will be coming to the US of A. Based on our relationship with Roland, the Bean & I were asked if she could come to Reno.

    Tonight, I met with her & her parents to answer all the questions that a mother who is sending her 19 year old daughter to the US for a year would ask. Did I mention that it is her ‘baby?’ :)

    We ate pizza, drank the local vintage of red (as the Steinbach/Sasbach region is a big vineyard) & talked.

    As long as her visa is approved, she’ll be coming to Reno in August to stay in the “German room” at our house.


    The rest of the night was spent talking, catching up, & praying together. Tomorrow we’re eating chicken curry & then Johannes will take me back to Frankfurt to Alex & Linda’s place for my last night in Deutschland for the month of Mai.

    Good night – I miss you. Esp. the Bean.