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		<title>Deutschland Travels, Spring 2010, Day #11 &amp; 12</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 07 May 2010 13:14:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[In the evening, I headed over to TPLF for the meeting of the Twenz &#8211; aka &#8216;college group&#8217;, better known as the Flying Ducks. I have to confess, I was walking the Kurfuerstenstrasse, &#038; smelled the doener from Bistro Sahin&#8230; &#038; next thing I knew, I was inside, eating one. With a hot Turkish tea [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://scoeyd.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/IMG_1344.jpg"><img src="http://scoeyd.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/IMG_1344-150x150.jpg" alt="" title="Louie @ Vodafone" width="150" height="150" class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-794" /></a> In the evening, I headed over to TPLF for the meeting of the Twenz &#8211; aka &#8216;college group&#8217;, better known as the Flying Ducks. I have to confess, I was walking the Kurfuerstenstrasse, &#038; smelled the doener from Bistro Sahin&#8230; &#038; next thing I knew, I was inside, eating one. With a hot Turkish tea that hit the spot on the rain-soaked, chilly evening.</p>
<p>At the Ducks, we spent time in worship &#038; then in talking through the difference between being a &#8220;believer&#8221; in Christ &#038; being a &#8220;disciple,&#8221; using John 8:30-34 as our text. Got to meet several great people, most notably a bubbly, inquisitive, &#038; really smart young lady, Aggi, who&#8217;s studying to be a teacher. She kept me on my toes with a series of probing questions throughout the message, each of which built on the previous one. Her developing understanding &#038; the &#8220;a-HA!&#8221; glimmer that sparkled in her eyes as we processed as a group reminded me just WHY bible study &#038; discussion groups are my favorite thing in the whole world. </p>
<p>After the meeting &#038; before I made my way home to catch some much-needed sleep, Aggi asked me to pray for her: that she would make good marks on her final exams before becoming a teacher; that she&#8217;s be a blessing, a real blessing (her words) to her family & friends; &#038; that she&#8217;d be able to walk. Aggi was born prematurely &#038; had some areas of her motor development that don&#8217;t function right yet. And still, she&#8217;s hoping &#038; contending for healing, to be able not to have to depend on her chair to get around. And even better, Aggi isn&#8217;t waiting around in solitude for this event &#8211; she&#8217;s actively living a great story that speaks to the power of God&#8217;s love in &#038; through her life. </p>
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This morning, I woke up at about 5:30, thanking God for the early wakeup call. The mens&#8217; breakfast for Kingdom Life Church started at 7, so after getting ready, Eddy &#038; I walked over to TPLF. One of the many things I am appreciating about Eddy is that like me, he is a quiet person in the morning. All&#8217;s I can say is we are truly kindred spirits in this regard. </p>
<p>There was a great breakfast prepared, with lots of steaming hot coffee, which is just what I was praying for on the brisk walk. A parfait that would have made theBean proud was served, along with a great assortment of German breads. I spoke from <a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=psalm%20126&#038;version=ESV">Psalm 126 </a>- talking about God&#8217;s restoration &#038; living in the &#8220;middle&#8221; between sowing &#038; reaping.</p>
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Got back to the Duecks &#038; sorted through my bags in what has become a &#8216;preparing to come home&#8217; routine. It&#8217;s where I take stock of what&#8217;s in my suitcase &#8211; folding what needs to be folded, separating dirty clothes, laying out my outfits for the next 2 days, making sure all is where it should be for the voyage home.</p>
<p>Today was also the day to get my manly (oh so manly,) shoulder bag that I shopped for yesterday. I jumped on the U-bahn to Hauptwache, &#038; made my way to the &#8220;Street Culture&#8221; store&#8230; only to find that this was the only store in the downtown that didn&#8217;t open at 10. No worries. I&#8217;d wait. <a href="http://scoeyd.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/IMG_1339.jpg"><img src="http://scoeyd.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/IMG_1339-150x150.jpg" alt="" title="2nd Breakfast" width="150" height="150" class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-788" /></a>In waiting, I got hungry for 2nd breakfast (I am on a journey, so maybe some <a href="http://mattcbr.files.wordpress.com/2009/05/406nhobbit-group-the-lord-of-the-rings-posters.jpg">Hobbit</a>-like tendencies are emerging,) so I stepped over to the McCafe next door for a coffee &#038; chocolate croissant. Amazing. </p>
<p><a href="http://scoeyd.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/IMG_1340.jpg"><img src="http://scoeyd.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/IMG_1340-150x150.jpg" alt="" title="a truly Manly shoulder bag." width="150" height="150" class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-789" /></a>Finally, the store next door opened &#038; I literally stumbled in, absolutely nailed my right knee cap on a seemingly invisible bench that emerged out of nowhere. Goodness. Made my way upstairs &#038; debated between the black, white, &#038; grey bags&#8230; finally deciding on black with grey accents. (Not quite Raider-esque&#8230;) Take a look. I think it is quite the Manly shoulder bag. </p>
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<a href="http://scoeyd.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/IMG_1343.jpg"><img src="http://scoeyd.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/IMG_1343-150x150.jpg" alt="" title="IMG_1343" width="150" height="150" class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-793" /></a>This afternoon, I was invited to go to take a tour of Levent&#8217;s <a href="http://www.vodafone.com/index.DE.html">workplace</a>. He works on the 22nd floor of the building, which provided for some great views of the surrounding area. We got to eat in the Cantina&#8230;<a href="http://scoeyd.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/IMG_1345.jpg"><img src="http://scoeyd.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/IMG_1345-150x150.jpg" alt="" title="conveyor to the kitchen. " width="150" height="150" class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-797" /></a> I had a canneloni that tasted like Spaghetti-O&#8217;s. Which is a good thing. I absolutely loved the conveyor belt that took our dishes into the kitchen. We are in Germany, I keep reminding myself. </p>
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Eddy &#038; I are now off to Gau Algesheim for dinner &#038; also to hang out with theology school students, as well as many of the pastors from Foursquare Germany. We&#8217;ll be there for the evening, returning late tonight, where I&#8217;ll be hoping for some good sleep, as I have a full day of meetings tomorrow&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Deutschland Travels, Spring 2010, Day #8-9</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 04 May 2010 13:42:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Monday is Eddy’s day off, &#038; I heard that the family would be headed to a couple of hardware stores to check out &#038; price supplies for the garden project. I asked if I could tag along, as one of the things I’ve never seen in Germany is a hardware store. Now I have. We [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Monday is Eddy’s day off, &#038; I heard that the family would be headed to a couple of hardware stores to check out &#038; price supplies for the garden project. I asked if I could tag along, as one of the things I’ve never seen in Germany is a hardware store. Now I have. We went to two stores, both of them very reminiscent of the Home Depot &#038; Lowe’s superstores; one, the Hornbach, even had the same color scheme &#038; ‘feel’ of Home Depot. </p>
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In the afternoon, the Dueck’s went to a family birthday party, &#038; I made my way over to TPLF to meet with a local pastor of an English speaking church named <a href="http://www.kingdomlife-frankfurt.com/index2.php?page=aboutus">Richard Morschel.</a> Richard is South African with German roots, &#038; he &#038; his family have been in Frankfurt since 1987, &#038; he’s been pastoring <a href="http://www.kingdomlife-frankfurt.com/index.php">Kingdom Life Church</a> here since 2006. We made our way to the bakery/coffee shop near the Bistro Sahin, &#038; had some cappuccino &#038; spent a couple of hours getting to know each other. </p>
<p>I’d met Richard before a couple of times, but determined on this trip to actually try to connect for more than a brief conversation. In addition to pastoring, he’s employed by the Frankfurt Opera, &#038; plays <a href="http://faculty.weber.edu/tpriest/bassoon05.gif">bassoon. </a> We had great talks about philosophy of church, the significance of relationships, the process of building trust, &#038; how our paths keep crossing in interesting ways. (For example, the man who leads the youth group came back to Jesus during the &#8220;Leben ist Schoen&#8221; outreach in August 2007&#8230; You can read about it <a href="http://scoey-d.blogspot.com/2009/11/days-turn-into-week-how-quick-they-pass.html">HERE</a>) I found that though we come from very different backgrounds, Richard &#038; I have a lot in common when it comes to our ideas about what really matters&#8230; This Friday morning, I&#8217;ll be participating in Kingdom Life&#8217;s men&#8217;s breakfast, &#038; giving the devotional. I look forward to seeing how our new relationship will develop. </p>
<p>There was a short interlude before my next appointment, so I took advantage of the down time to read. I&#8217;m currently in a book about <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Presentation-Secrets-Steve-Jobs-Insanely/dp/0071636080/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&#038;s=books&#038;qid=1272979105&#038;sr=8-1">Apple CEO Steve Jobs</a>. Some of it is great, some absolutely cracks me up.</p>
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My ride arrived in the form of Levent&#8217;s VW; we chatted as he skillfully wound his way through Frankfurt&#8217;s crazy rush-hour traffic, making his way to their home. Levent is Turkish, &#038; was one of the 1st people that I met at TPLF in 2005, &#038; it is always good to be able to visit with him &#038; Ines, his Bolivian/German wife. They prepared an excellent dinner with burgers, brats, bbq&#8217;d corn-on-the-cob, salad, &#038; a South African <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pinotage">Pinotage</a>. We caught up on their lives, &#038; also the new happenings in one of the areas that they help out at church in, the Twens Gruppe (College Group,) which is affectionately known as<a href="http://www.maxwaugh.com/images/uk06/orkneys/ducks2.jpg"> &#8220;Flying Ducks.&#8221; </a>  We made some tentative plans for Ines &#038; I to go to Levent&#8217;s workplace on Friday for a tour &#038; for lunch. (He&#8217;s in TV. Meaning, he is working to bring streaming television live to the internet.)</p>
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<p>Day 9 began at 5:50 a.m. as I staggered my way out the door &#038; down the street to TPLF for prayer for TPLF, led by my friend Sam Clayton. Several of us gathered for about an hour to pray for the church, Eddy &#038; Laura, &#038; whatever else we were led to. And coffee was served, which filled my prayers with a bit more energy than they otherwise might have. </p>
<p>Sam (from Manchester, England,)  took me to his house right after prayer to spend time with his family: Wife Mirjam (Swiss), &#038; their 3 kids; Danny 4, Becky (my god-daughter,) 2, &#038; Benjamin 1. Danny had to go to kindergarten, leaving Sam, Mirjam &#038; I to eat some great food,  play with the kids &#038; catch up on life. Sam &#038; Mirjam had been a part of the Roundabout team with me, &#038; have also been at TPLF since 2006. Sam feels a call to inter-national reconciliation &#038; peace, &#038; is currently studying to be able to put himself in a spot to help facilitate this. Their story always reminds me of the often winding road that our lives take: Sam left England &#038; went to France, where he met Mirjam, a Swiss national on a mission trip. He tried everything he knew to learn her language (French) &#038; her heart&#8230; which he was eventually able to do, marrying about 6 years ago. Then, this international couple felt led to relocated to Frankfurt &#8211; &#038; so Sam learned German to go along with his English &#038; French&#8230; They have story after story to tell about God&#8217;s faithfulness, provision, &#038; care in their lives. I&#8217;m honored to be able to be in their lives.</p>
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I&#8217;ve been trying to catch up on blogging this afternoon, to take a nap, &#038; then do some studying for the meetings I&#8217;ll be having over the next few days. My contacts with home have left me feeling a bit home-sick I must say. More than once, I&#8217;ve loaded a picture album of my family on my Mac &#038; watched the slideshow play over &#038; over, often pausing on pictures of each of my dear ones to pray for them&#8230; &#038; extra long on theBean &#038; her clear blue eyes, gleaming like sapphires, calling to me, making it hard for me to think anything at all except of her&#8230; sigh. Soon, my dear.</p>
<p>Tonight, in just a few hours, Eddy &#038; I are going to a Man Meeting to talk about Manhood &#038; what it means to be a Man. Great topic, &#038; I&#8217;m really looking forward to the discussion on this, especially considering that there will be people from all sorts of backgrounds &#038; cultures participating. Good times!</p>
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