Comments on: Goodbye to Sue L. & other thoughts… http://scoeyd.com/2008/05/27/goodbye-to-sue-l-other-thoughts/ just a boy trying to figure it out on the fly... Wed, 01 Feb 2012 04:43:29 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Chemane http://scoeyd.com/2008/05/27/goodbye-to-sue-l-other-thoughts/comment-page-1/#comment-1650 Chemane Fri, 30 May 2008 05:34:00 +0000 http://scoeyd.com/2008/05/27/goodbye-to-sue-l-other-thoughts/#comment-1650 Ben you make me laugh. <br/>My first husband's name was Chris, Christian Erich Fager. He is (was) Alex's dad. He died on September 1,2001. He was 38 years old. That's younger than I am now. He was my best friend. He had a great sense of humor. At times I find myself wishing he were here so I could share something with him that only he would understand. Alex doesn't remember him. She is very curious at times (and dramatic I may add) about knowing who he was. I suggested that she ask everyone, (her sisters (I have 2 step daughters Ariel & Briana), her Grandpa Fager, a couple of his close friends I can get in contact with) to share with her their memories, and to give her a sense of who he was through their perspective. <br/>I have a couple of boxes that I haven't shared with her yet. When she asks about it, I tell her I am waiting for an appropriate time. The truth is I'm just not ready. I don't know if I'll ever be ready. I hope she understands and forgives me for waiting so long when that day comes. Ben you make me laugh.
My first husband’s name was Chris, Christian Erich Fager. He is (was) Alex’s dad. He died on September 1,2001. He was 38 years old. That’s younger than I am now. He was my best friend. He had a great sense of humor. At times I find myself wishing he were here so I could share something with him that only he would understand. Alex doesn’t remember him. She is very curious at times (and dramatic I may add) about knowing who he was. I suggested that she ask everyone, (her sisters (I have 2 step daughters Ariel & Briana), her Grandpa Fager, a couple of his close friends I can get in contact with) to share with her their memories, and to give her a sense of who he was through their perspective.
I have a couple of boxes that I haven’t shared with her yet. When she asks about it, I tell her I am waiting for an appropriate time. The truth is I’m just not ready. I don’t know if I’ll ever be ready. I hope she understands and forgives me for waiting so long when that day comes.

]]> By: Murdoc http://scoeyd.com/2008/05/27/goodbye-to-sue-l-other-thoughts/comment-page-1/#comment-1644 Murdoc Thu, 29 May 2008 16:09:00 +0000 http://scoeyd.com/2008/05/27/goodbye-to-sue-l-other-thoughts/#comment-1644 I hip thrust in deaths general direction. I'm not sure what direction that is, but it could be any. Many hip thrusts to follow. I hip thrust in deaths general direction. I’m not sure what direction that is, but it could be any. Many hip thrusts to follow.

]]> By: jami http://scoeyd.com/2008/05/27/goodbye-to-sue-l-other-thoughts/comment-page-1/#comment-1643 jami Wed, 28 May 2008 18:14:00 +0000 http://scoeyd.com/2008/05/27/goodbye-to-sue-l-other-thoughts/#comment-1643 i've been thinking alot about death lately, and to be honest, it scares me. just the thought about losing someone you love and care for and the pain that follows their passing, and the healing afterwards, and the scars that are left behind. i'm glad i have friends to go through things with. i agree with you... let's not go solo. i’ve been thinking alot about death lately, and to be honest, it scares me. just the thought about losing someone you love and care for and the pain that follows their passing, and the healing afterwards, and the scars that are left behind. i’m glad i have friends to go through things with. i agree with you… let’s not go solo.

]]> By: Alex http://scoeyd.com/2008/05/27/goodbye-to-sue-l-other-thoughts/comment-page-1/#comment-1642 Alex Wed, 28 May 2008 07:18:00 +0000 http://scoeyd.com/2008/05/27/goodbye-to-sue-l-other-thoughts/#comment-1642 thanks for sharing... thanks for sharing…

]]> By: laura http://scoeyd.com/2008/05/27/goodbye-to-sue-l-other-thoughts/comment-page-1/#comment-1641 laura Wed, 28 May 2008 04:44:00 +0000 http://scoeyd.com/2008/05/27/goodbye-to-sue-l-other-thoughts/#comment-1641 i stopped by... i stopped by…

]]> By: scoey-d http://scoeyd.com/2008/05/27/goodbye-to-sue-l-other-thoughts/comment-page-1/#comment-1640 scoey-d Wed, 28 May 2008 03:51:00 +0000 http://scoeyd.com/2008/05/27/goodbye-to-sue-l-other-thoughts/#comment-1640 Dabey- I will fong you.<br/><br/>No..el. Yes. It's true.<br/><br/>TPT- you're right. Ben are great.<br/><br/>scoeyd- you are a sentimental guy. Dabey- I will fong you.

No..el. Yes. It’s true.

TPT- you’re right. Ben are great.

scoeyd- you are a sentimental guy.

]]> By: David http://scoeyd.com/2008/05/27/goodbye-to-sue-l-other-thoughts/comment-page-1/#comment-1639 David Wed, 28 May 2008 03:31:00 +0000 http://scoeyd.com/2008/05/27/goodbye-to-sue-l-other-thoughts/#comment-1639 You can't threaten me with dentist stuff; I've never had a cavity so visits to the dentist are generally pain free. You can’t threaten me with dentist stuff; I’ve never had a cavity so visits to the dentist are generally pain free.

]]> By: TPluckyT http://scoeyd.com/2008/05/27/goodbye-to-sue-l-other-thoughts/comment-page-1/#comment-1638 TPluckyT Wed, 28 May 2008 02:08:00 +0000 http://scoeyd.com/2008/05/27/goodbye-to-sue-l-other-thoughts/#comment-1638 "Let's not go solo." <br/><br/>Man ain't that the truth . . . I wish I had known your brother . . .I know I sure like knowing Ben . . .<br/><br/>BTW, I was really proud of Joey today too . . . “Let’s not go solo.”

Man ain’t that the truth . . . I wish I had known your brother . . .I know I sure like knowing Ben . . .

BTW, I was really proud of Joey today too . . .

]]> By: noel http://scoeyd.com/2008/05/27/goodbye-to-sue-l-other-thoughts/comment-page-1/#comment-1637 noel Wed, 28 May 2008 01:30:00 +0000 http://scoeyd.com/2008/05/27/goodbye-to-sue-l-other-thoughts/#comment-1637 I HATE with a vegance death. Knowing Jesus helps some but still the sting is deep and hurts and I just want to crawl into my bed and never get out but life is for the living and so we move on.<br/>I didn't know Johnny personally, sure did know alot of girls who thought he was "the one" though. Boy howdy ,does Joey ever fall in those footsteps!!<br/>I still wish that Mo's sister was here for our kids. SHe got to feel Em move in my belly but left shortly there after and the sting is still there. It sucks.<br/>I look forward to the day when that great party will take place and we will be together again with all those that have gone before us. All I have to say to all of them is , LUCKY (in napoleon dynamite fashion of course)!!! I HATE with a vegance death. Knowing Jesus helps some but still the sting is deep and hurts and I just want to crawl into my bed and never get out but life is for the living and so we move on.
I didn’t know Johnny personally, sure did know alot of girls who thought he was “the one” though. Boy howdy ,does Joey ever fall in those footsteps!!
I still wish that Mo’s sister was here for our kids. SHe got to feel Em move in my belly but left shortly there after and the sting is still there. It sucks.
I look forward to the day when that great party will take place and we will be together again with all those that have gone before us. All I have to say to all of them is , LUCKY (in napoleon dynamite fashion of course)!!!

]]> By: scoey-d http://scoeyd.com/2008/05/27/goodbye-to-sue-l-other-thoughts/comment-page-1/#comment-1636 scoey-d Wed, 28 May 2008 00:40:00 +0000 http://scoeyd.com/2008/05/27/goodbye-to-sue-l-other-thoughts/#comment-1636 You'll come to my funeral or I'll make your life a living visit to the Dentist...<br/><br/>And as far as the story about the bladder... welcome to my world, the world of the walnut sized bladder. And that's talking about me. <br/><br/><i>Oh no! I've said, too, much. I haven't said enough...</i> You’ll come to my funeral or I’ll make your life a living visit to the Dentist…

And as far as the story about the bladder… welcome to my world, the world of the walnut sized bladder. And that’s talking about me.

Oh no! I’ve said, too, much. I haven’t said enough…

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